Tuesday, August 07, 2007
the lessons that life has to offer are more often than not veiled in the most deceptive of manners,leadin u on a diabetically sweet wild good chase before dismemberin what's left of u,emotionally especially,juz when ure all absorbed in its enchantment.
im sayin this,not least cuz im the most qualified person around to dispense such eeriely true and difficult to comprehend philosophies of life,but cuz ive been there,done that.
life revolves around makin choices.unfortunately,human nature borders on selfishness,so only the minority few will not make choices from which they dont stand to gain anyth from.consequentially,life aint ever fair.ur every choice and decision will certainly leave one party relieved and perhaps to some extent,happy,while reducin the other party to a useless mangle only to pick up after himself.
my point being,why cant people attempt to strike a balance under such circumstances when they gotta make a choice?it'll undeniably be tirin,whether physically or emotionally,to accede to the requests from all parties,and obviously all parties will have to sacrifice certain things in the long run,but at the end of the day,im sure the most satisfaction will be derived knowin that uve done ur best and succeeded in easin such a tense situation by compromisin in all aspects.
because,when u gotta make a choice out of the two that're offered to u,it's innate is us humans to blindly discard the one that actually the matters most to us juz for the other choice that contains all but superficialities.
and when u finally realised what uve lost,it aint late,really.
it's way too late.
im sayin this,not least cuz im the most qualified person around to dispense such eeriely true and difficult to comprehend philosophies of life,but cuz ive been there,done that.
life revolves around makin choices.unfortunately,human nature borders on selfishness,so only the minority few will not make choices from which they dont stand to gain anyth from.consequentially,life aint ever fair.ur every choice and decision will certainly leave one party relieved and perhaps to some extent,happy,while reducin the other party to a useless mangle only to pick up after himself.
my point being,why cant people attempt to strike a balance under such circumstances when they gotta make a choice?it'll undeniably be tirin,whether physically or emotionally,to accede to the requests from all parties,and obviously all parties will have to sacrifice certain things in the long run,but at the end of the day,im sure the most satisfaction will be derived knowin that uve done ur best and succeeded in easin such a tense situation by compromisin in all aspects.
because,when u gotta make a choice out of the two that're offered to u,it's innate is us humans to blindly discard the one that actually the matters most to us juz for the other choice that contains all but superficialities.
and when u finally realised what uve lost,it aint late,really.
it's way too late.